In the beginning it was “this is just a fantasy, we shouldn’t risk it”. ‘She has always been keen on the idea but sensibly wary about damaging a relationship. With my wife, as we have been together for 10 years, it has been something that is “there” for ages. ‘I’ve had partners just shut that down and say its not their thing (I’d never try to be pushy about this kind of thing) and others who’d be up for dabbling. ‘For most of my adult life I have found that when I am in a relationship for quite a while then I become fixated on the idea of sharing my partner with other men. I’ve also been in a gangbang.’ The one who likes to share… ‘Went to a Naturist Spa in Kentish Town and banged a 47 year old in a steam room.
